Division sucks!

Well, not really, but it sure is hard trying to explain to a child with special needs. I am not a teacher, and just don't know how to explain the homework in a way 'Milo will understand sometimes. One afternoon we ended up getting frustrated with the homework and each other. Then I just feel horrible the I let it get the best of me. After our mini meltdowns I sat with him and told him I'm sorry that I couldn't explain it better to him. He said he was sorry he was having a hard time and I told him it wasn't his fault. We sat on the floor to take a break and gave hugs. Then he said he wanted to try again. So we set up at the table again and gave it another shot, and we push thru and got it done. When at first you don't succeed...

Holiday rush is in full swing!

I went to an Autism support group last Wed at CARD (Center for Autism and Related Disorders). The topic; Handling the Holidays.
Most of this information is basic whenever routines change. But with the busy rush of the holiday season, it's easy to forget to slow down and take that extra step with our kiddos on the spec.
Some of the tips include:

• Role play with your child to help him/her understand the social expectations ahead of time. (shaking hands, greeting, new people)
• Have a safe place and have a relaxing activity on hand. Maybe even create a secret code that your child can say so you know they need a quite place.
• Find a way for your child to contribute to the holiday (help decorate, frost cupcakes, set the table)
• Make sure their dietary needs are met.  Explain to a host that your child has specific needs when it comes to food and that you'll bring something for your child.     

Meltdowns can be caused by too many or rapid changes. Give your child time to process the changes to the routine or environment. If a meltdown happens try to use a calm soothing voice. Try not to overwhelm your child with lots of questions or offering lots of choices. Use fewer words to decrease confusion. Most of all, be patient! Easier said than done sometimes, I know! But these few tips can hopefully make the holiday season a bit less stressful.

"Brain Brain Medicine"

Taking his "brain brain" medicine. It's actually an Omega supplement that supports brain and visual function. I looked into it after my cousin said she gives a similar supplement to her son. The only one I could find has a strawberry flavor and smell to it. But 'Milo HATES strawberries. It took him the longest time to take without gagging. But he finally will take, even reminding me at times before he goes to bed. We use to give to him in the morning, but he refuses now and will only take at night. He will not touch it or let me place it in his mouth. He will only take if I put it on the counter and he picks it up with his mouth. But not before I place a glass of water ready for him to wash it down with. This is one of our rituals. Hey, whatever works.

Legos!

My son is Autistic and he LOVES Legos!  

I love them too 'cause they are great for those fine motor skills, sorting, and just plain fun :)

 

First we sort...

 Fine motor skills hard at work!  The thumb and index finger combo can be tricky for him... but he's getting there

 Mission complete!!  

Cool, a truck too!

Oh that face! <3